Eleven years after becoming a mom, I reflect on my breastfeeding experience. It didn’t start on the delivery day—it started way before. It was my body, my mammary glands, yet others felt entitled to dictate what I must do.
The opinions poured in, “You are a working mum, how will you cope?” “You must exclusively breastfeed.” “You must not exclusively breastfeed.” “You should breastfeed but only express, so the child won’t get too attached to you.” Why wouldn’t I want my child to get attached to me? The research is clear, secure attachment is pivotal to child development.
Many of my most joyous moments after an excruciating birthing experience happened during breastfeeding. Beyond its nutritional value, breastfeeding plays a crucial role in emotional and mental well-being benefiting mother and child.
Yet, in Nigeria, the support and structures necessary for successful breastfeeding are still lacking. This raises the urgent need to address cultural norms, policy gaps, and systemic barriers that hinder breastfeeding practices across Nigeria.
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A bonding moment as Nene Aliemeke breastfeeds her son in Lagos.
An Essential Connection
The usefulness of breastfeeding goes beyond its nutritional value and extends to deep mental and emotional benefits for mothers and children. It can help mitigate postpartum depression, and it can be a deeply satisfying experience knowing what the body can do. The research is also clear: mother-child interaction in the first hour after birth is essential, and this is facilitated by breastfeeding and skin-to-skin contact. Babies suckling on the breast produce oxytocin, prolactin, and other metabolites that strengthen the mother-child bond. It also lowers physiological stress for the mother and child. According to leading scientists, breastfeeding has evolved through our mammalian history to optimize mother and infant health and survival.
Nene Aliemeke holding her son, Chukwuka Aliemeke, in her arms at home.
Chukwuka Aliemeke, a 9-month-old boy, at home.
Benefits for the Child
According to the World Health Organization (WHO), breastmilk remains the safest feeding option and acts as the first form of immunization for newborns. It contains antibodies that protect babies against common childhood diseases such as respiratory and gastrointestinal illnesses. What’s more, it supports development at each of the infant’s varying stages of growth by providing a special combination of fats, proteins, carbohydrates, vitamins, and minerals.
These custom formulas are crucial to the baby’s brain development in the first 6 months, but breastmilk can still supply up to half or more of a child’s dietary needs up until they’re 24 months old.
Benefits for the Mother
Breastfeeding isn’t just good for the baby, it also has numerous benefits for the mother. For instance, it postpones ovulation, reducing the risk of short interval pregnancies through lactational amenorrhea, which occurs when the hormone prolactin is released while nursing, which in turn suppresses ovulation. Breastfeeding also lowers risks of breast and ovarian cancer by reducing estrogen levels and improves insulin sensitivity, aiding postpartum weight loss and reducing type 2 diabetes risk. Finally, it also helps regulate blood pressure, cholesterol, and heart health, offering long-term protection against chronic conditions.
Babatunde Latifat sits at Sango PHC, Agege, Lagos, breastfeeding her baby. Photo: Yagazie Emezi
Mercy Ola Lekan breastfeeds her young daughter in her home community in Surulere. Photo: Yagazie Emezi
Economic Benefits
Breastfeeding also benefits families economically. Compared to other methods, it’s cost-effective. Breastmilk is essentially free and readily available. Nigerian families that don’t breastfeed end up spending up to one-third of their household income on formula. Breastfeeding is also a practical, budget-friendly way to reduce costs associated with preventable diseases for mother and child. With fewer hospital visits and general health-care costs, families witness fewer financial strains from hospitalizations.
Which in turn could benefit Nigerian society. Across Nigeria, the country could save N18.6 trillion—2.81% of its gross national income—by supporting breastfeeding. It's projected that every 1,000 Naira invested in breastfeeding support could result in an estimated 35,000 Naira in economic returns.
Female Empowerment
Putting all the above benefits aside, the practice of breastfeeding also has a deeply political dimension. At the heart of numerous breastfeeding discussions is women’s autonomy – the right to make educated decisions about their bodies, lives, and families. When women know about the benefits of breastfeeding for mother and child, they often choose to breastfeed if they can.
Still, even in today’s society, there are numerous hurdles preventing women from exclusive breastfeeding.
Nene Aliemeke, Nigerian actress, model, mother, posing for a photo in Lagos.
Mothers sit in a park with their children as Nene shows them something on her phone.
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The Situation
A look at the numbers seems encouraging at first. Nigeria is a breastfeeding country with a 95% rate of breastfeeding and a 71% rate of predominant breastfeeding. However, several factors, including misinformation and myths, are responsible for Nigeria’s poor exclusive breastfeeding rate.
Only 34% of Nigerian infants are exclusively breastfed for the first six months of life, which is below the global average of 48% and far below the Global Breastfeeding Collective’s target of 70% by 2030. Mothers in Nigeria encounter various barriers to exclusive breastfeeding.
Cultural and Social
Barriers often stem from patriarchal culture in multigenerational families. While extended family support is valuable, it sometimes perpetuates harmful beliefs. Women may be discouraged from breastfeeding to avoid threatening father-child bonds, as children traditionally "belong" to men in patrilineal systems. Some family members spread the dangerous myth that colostrum (first milk) is dirty and harmful, when it actually contains crucial white cells and antibodies that boost newborn immunity during their most vulnerable period.
Others push for introducing water or food too early—sometimes within the first hour after birth—significantly reducing the likelihood of successful exclusive breastfeeding later on.
Midwives and a pregnant woman in a small waiting room in Nigeria. Photo: Yagazie Emezi
A Nigerian mother prepares food. Photo: KC Nwakalor for USAID, modified image.
Parents eat a meal outdoors with their children. Photo: KC Nwakalor for USAID, modified image.
Workplace and Policy
Early complementary feeding isn't solely caused by harmful cultural practices or ignorance. Many cases also stem from family-unfriendly workplace policies, inadequate labor laws, and insufficient institutional investment in breastfeeding support. This includes a lack of comprehensive paid family leave or even accommodations to breastfeed in the workplace.
While international labor standards recommend at least 18 weeks of maternity leave, many working mothers receive far less time off after giving birth. Although health experts recommend 24 weeks of paid maternity leave, only seven Nigerian states currently provide this protection.
Consequently, many mothers must return to work much earlier than recommended or desired.
Limited Alternatives
Without adequate support, many mothers struggle to breastfeed exclusively. Their newborns often join the 75% of babies under six months fed water, other milks, herbal mixtures, or commercial milk formula (CMF)—compromising exclusive breastfeeding's benefits. This practice introduces significant risks: when a baby's small stomach is filled with substitutes, there's less room for breastmilk, which naturally contains over 70% water. This displaces essential nutrients and can lead to malnutrition. In regions with limited clean water access, this practice also raises the risk of waterborne illnesses.
The widespread promotion and accessibility of CMF also presents a challenge. WHO and UNICEF have repeatedly raised concerns about aggressive marketing tactics that amplify mother’s anxiety about milk sufficiency. WHO research in 2022 shows that CMF advertising in healthcare settings and across social media significantly influences parental feeding decisions. In Nigeria, about 48% of healthcare facilities display CMF promotional materials, and nearly half of postpartum women report receiving feeding advice from health professionals influenced by formula marketing.
For mothers unable to breastfeed, WHO recommends donor human milk over infant formula, particularly for preterm or vulnerable infants. However, in Nigeria, access remains extremely limited due to scarcity of human milk banks. Only a handful of facilities provide donor milk services, far below demand, leaving countless infants without access to the safest alternative.
A look at the numbers seems encouraging at first. Nigeria is a breastfeeding country with a 95% rate of breastfeeding and a 71% rate of predominant breastfeeding. However, several factors, including misinformation and myths, are responsible for Nigeria’s poor exclusive breastfeeding rate.
Only 34% of Nigerian infants are exclusively breastfed for the first six months of life, which is below the global average of 48% and far below the Global Breastfeeding Collective’s target of 70% by 2030. Mothers in Nigeria encounter various barriers to exclusive breastfeeding.
A Nigerian family poses for a picture outside. Photo: KC Nwakalor for USAID, modified image.
Advocacy for breastfeeding must stand firm, emphasizing its benefits and providing robust support systems for mothers who choose to breastfeed. Rejecting breastfeeding in favor of formula feeding due to patriarchal structures and beliefs can have several harmful consequences. For one, it risks overlooking the biochemical and physiological benefits that nursing provides to newborns. These benefits are not just for moms; they directly impact children’s health outcomes, which can last their entire lives.
Rather than presenting breastfeeding as a constraint, it can be viewed as a shared experience that enhances both parents’ roles in nurturing, provided that societal support systems are in place to enable and empower mothers to succeed in breastfeeding. The rejection of breastfeeding in pursuit of a narrow conception of gendered parenting can lead to missed opportunities for nurturing connections and undermine the health benefits for children. Breastfeeding, when supported by the appropriate laws and societal institutions, is a proclamation.
Family enjoying the day in front of a tapestry. Photo: KC Nwakalor for USAID, modified image.
A Nigerian family gathers outside. Photo: KC Nwakalor for USAID, modified image.
The first week of August is dedicated to raising awareness for breastfeeding and is supported by organizations such as WHO and UNICEF. The theme of the last breastfeeding week was “Closing the gap: Breastfeeding support for all.” This theme is particularly pivotal because breastfeeding rates across the globe are far from ideal. Globally, 48% of newborns under six months old are exclusively breastfed. This has serious consequences. Inadequate breastfeeding is estimated to be responsible for 16% of child deaths each year.
Solutions
Governments, companies, and communities must all commit to supporting women and systematic change to increase breastfeeding rates.
Governments must strictly regulate aggressive CMF marketing. Health workers should be thoroughly trained to resist CMF industry tactics and support mothers ethically.
Paid maternity leave of at least 24 weeks should be standard. Employers must provide breastfeeding-friendly policies such as flexible schedules and lactation spaces.
Fathers should embrace equal parenthood, share household chores, and ensure mothers are well fed to support exclusive breastfeeding. Their emotional support reduces maternal stress.
In multigenerational homes, extended families should provide a positive breastfeeding environment, helping mothers feel supported rather than pressured to use formula.
Lactation support must be widespread while public campaigns should combat misinformation and stigma.
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A family poses outside their home in Lagos.
Shifting the Narrative
The cultural and patriarchal framing of breastfeeding narratives must be deconstructed. We must dismiss the idea that women’s biology conflicts with their professional success. Societies must acknowledge breastfeeding as a liberating and empowering decision that addresses public health concerns as well as represents maternal autonomy.
Breastfeeding must be seen through a human rights perspective. It is about choice, autonomy, and support. It is a collective and personal obligation that calls for structural, financial, and legislative measures. Public health and gender equity depend on every mother making sure she has the tools to breastfeed, should she want to.
The objective is clear: a future in which no woman must choose between her economic well-being and her child’s health; nursing is not a privilege but a widely accepted right. Governments should go beyond symbolic gestures and promise significant, systematic change to achieve the goals suggested by organizations such as WHO. Together, we can create a society that supports and encourages every mother’s choice.
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